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January 10, 2026

Kathy Hochul and Zohran Mamdani are showing what ‘pro-family’ means | Arwa Mahdawi

In a refreshing shift from the usual political discourse, New York Governor Kathy Hochul and Mayor Zohran Mamdani are championing a truly pro-family agenda by advancing plans for free universal childcare for two-year-olds. This initiative, which aims to support families in high-need areas, marks a significant step towards making childcare more accessible and affordable, especially as Mamdani fulfills his campaign promises just weeks into his mayoral term. The article emphasizes that genuine family support comes from policies that enable parents to thrive, rather than punitive measures that restrict reproductive rights. As the political landscape often feels bleak, this initiative serves as a hopeful reminder that bold, actionable change is possible.

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Address to Students in the Stoa

Greetings, students. Today, we gather not merely to discuss the affairs of the world but to examine our judgments about them.

The Headline Issue: A Bold Family Agenda

In a time when political discourse often leaves us despondent, we witness a commendable initiative from Governor Kathy Hochul and Mayor Zohran Mamdani. Their proposal for free universal childcare for two-year-olds is a testament to a pro-family agenda that seeks to support families in need.

Challenge Unhealthy Judgments

Let us not fall prey to the cynicism that often clouds our perceptions. Instead, consider:

  • Judgment of Intent: Do not assume that political actions are solely driven by self-interest.
  • Judgment of Effectiveness: Recognize that bold initiatives can lead to real change, even amidst skepticism.

Anchor in the Discipline of Desire, Impulse, and Assent

To navigate this landscape, we must cultivate discipline over our desires and impulses. Here’s how:

  1. Desire Wisely:

    • Seek what is truly beneficial for the common good.
    • Desire policies that uplift families rather than punitive measures.
  2. Control Your Impulses:

    • Resist the urge to dismiss new initiatives as futile.
    • Instead, engage constructively with the possibilities they present.
  3. Assent Thoughtfully:

    • Before agreeing or disagreeing, reflect on the broader implications of such policies.
    • Consider how they align with your values of support and community.

Imperatives for Action

As you ponder these matters, I urge you to:

  • Engage Actively: Participate in discussions about policies that affect your community.
  • Support Bold Initiatives: Advocate for measures that genuinely support families and children.
  • Maintain Hope: Even in challenging times, hold onto the belief that change is possible.

Remember, my students: the essence of our philosophy lies not in passive observation but in active engagement with the world around us. Let us strive to be agents of positive change, guided by wisdom and virtue.

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Journal Entry: Reflections on Family and Governance

The Nature of Change

Today, I learned of a commendable initiative from the leaders of New York—a plan for free universal childcare for two-year-olds, aimed at supporting families in need. In the midst of a world often overshadowed by strife and discord, it is refreshing to witness a commitment to nurturing the next generation. This serves as a reminder that the fabric of society is woven through the care we extend to our families.

The Role of Leadership

Governor Kathy Hochul and Mayor Zohran Mamdani, in their early days of governance, have embarked on a path that reflects an understanding of what it means to be pro-family. Their actions remind us that true leadership is not merely about the exercise of power but about the cultivation of virtue and the well-being of the community. Mamdani's resolve to fulfill his campaign promises, even amidst challenges, speaks to the strength of character that we must all aspire to embody.

Acceptance of Nature's Order

In contemplating the complexities of governance, I find solace in the acceptance of nature's order. The questions surrounding funding and implementation of this childcare initiative are but reflections of the broader uncertainties of life. Instead of succumbing to anxiety over these uncertainties, I choose to embrace them as opportunities for growth and collaboration. It is in the face of challenge that we discover our capacity for innovation and resilience.

A Call to Virtue

It is evident that genuine family support arises not from punitive measures but from policies that empower parents and children alike. The notion that we can create a more nurturing environment for families is a testament to the potential for virtue within our political systems. If we desire a society that values family, we must act in ways that promote the flourishing of all its members.

The Courage to Aspire

Mamdani’s assertion that we should not lower our expectations, but rather aspire to greater heights, resonates deeply. It is a reminder that we must cultivate courage in our pursuits, refusing to accept a narrative of defeatism. In the face of adversity, let us strive to embody the virtues of hope and determination, recognizing that our efforts, however small, contribute to the greater good.

Reflections on the Wider World

While the political landscape may often seem bleak, this initiative serves as a beacon of hope. It is a call to action for all who wish to see a better world. As we navigate the complexities of our times, let us remember that our collective actions can indeed foster change. The courage to try, to innovate, and to support one another is what will ultimately define our legacy.

Conclusion: Embracing the Journey

In closing, I reflect on the importance of nurturing our families and communities. Let us remain steadfast in our commitment to the values that uplift us, recognizing that even in the face of challenges, we have the capacity to effect meaningful change. The journey is long, but with each step taken in virtue and courage, we move closer to a more harmonious existence.

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What a real pro-family agenda looks like I think we all need a little cheering up, don’t you? So allow me to interrupt the steady stream of violent authoritarianism and state-sponsored murder in your feed with some good news. New York City, which already provides free preschool for three- and four-year-olds, is a step closer to providing free universal childcare for two-year-olds. On Thursday, Governor Kathy Hochul and Mayor Zohran Mamdani announced a plan for the free childcare program, which they said will start by focusing on “high-need areas” and then gradually expand to cover the city. The mayor said he expected about 2,000 children to be covered by the program this fall. There are still a lot of questions about how the universal childcare program will be funded long-term and how exactly it will be rolled out. Nevertheless, even though it’s still in a very early stage, there’s a lot to celebrate here. First, there’s the fact that, not even two weeks into his role as mayor, Mamdani seems to be doing all he can to fulfil his bold campaign promises and affordability agenda. Most importantly, he’s shown he can work with the state governor, who has made it quite clear she is not his biggest fan, to get things done. “To those who think that the promises of a campaign cannot survive once confronted with the realities of government, today is your answer,” Mamdani said at the event on Thursday. I hope that pro-natalists and representatives of the so-called “party of family values” are paying attention here. Sorry to state the bleeding obvious, but if you want people to have more kids, then this is how you do it. You don’t do it by making condoms more expensive (hello, China) or by removing access to safe and legal abortions (hello, USA) or by saying grandparents, not daycares, should be watching little kids (hello, JD Vance). Rather, you make it more affordable for people to have children. If you want to be a party of family values, you do that by actually helping young children thrive – not by separating migrant families. I also hope that Democratic politicians are paying attention. Turns out that you can, in fact, aim high! You can, in fact, get things done! You don’t need to tell Republicans this, by the way. They are very good at having bold (albeit dystopian) ambitions and getting things done. Donald Trump just told the New York Times that the only limits on his power are his “own morality” and his “own mind”. I’m not condoning this, obviously! Still, nobody could accuse the Trump administration of not thinking big. Meanwhile the Democrats continually think small. They need to raise a few billion from you every election cycle so they can hire some highly paid consultants to create taskforces and policy papers and PowerPoint decks, which all conclude, regrettably, that nothing good can ever happen. Abandon your childish idealism because they, the “moderates” and the adults in the room, have decided that a better world just isn’t realistic. Still, make sure you vote blue no matter who (unless it’s a democratic socialist), because the other people are worse. “In writing this address, I have been told that this is the occasion to reset expectations, that I should use this opportunity to encourage the people of New York to ask for little and expect even less,” Mamdani said in his inaugural address. “I will do no such thing. The only expectation I seek to reset is that of small expectations. We may not always succeed. But never will we be accused of lacking the courage to try.” Amen to that. We should all expect more from our politicians – who routinely seem to forget that they work for us, not a select few billionaires. Things seem hopeless at the moment, but we must continue to have the courage to try to fight for a better world. 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