April 28, 2026
Shrugging at calamity: America is reacting in strange ways to our chaotic times | Francine Prose
In her article, Francine Prose argues that Americans have become desensitized to violence and political turmoil, leading to widespread skepticism about the truth of events, including a recent assassination attempt at the White House correspondents’ dinner. Supporting evidence includes a surge of conspiracy theories on social media and a general distrust in government narratives, fueled by a history of political deception. This matters because it highlights a societal shift where violence is normalized, and the public struggles to process ongoing tragedies, creating a cycle of outrage and numbness that undermines civic engagement and trust in leadership.

Stoic Response
The Nature of Control in a Chaotic World
In the midst of societal turmoil, we find ourselves grappling with a profound tension: the desensitization to violence and the erosion of trust in our leaders. As Francine Prose articulates, “we’ve become so accustomed to being deceived that we no longer know precisely whom we can trust and what we can believe.” This sentiment resonates deeply within the Stoic framework, where the dichotomy of control teaches us to discern what lies within our power and what does not.
Acknowledge the Reality of the Situation
First and foremost, recognize the chaos around you. The normalization of violence and the pervasive skepticism about truth are not mere background noise; they are the fabric of our current reality. Accept that while you cannot control the actions of others or the unfolding of events, you can control your response.
- Reflect: Take time to contemplate the state of the world. Acknowledge your feelings of outrage, confusion, or even numbness. Understanding your emotional landscape is the first step toward mastering it.
Focus on What You Can Control
In the face of uncertainty, focus on your own actions and beliefs. The Stoics teach us that while we cannot change external circumstances, we can choose how we respond to them.
- Act with Integrity: Engage in actions that align with your values. Whether it’s participating in civic discourse, seeking out credible information, or supporting those who strive for truth, your choices matter.
Cultivate Inner Resilience
As the world around you shifts, cultivate a sense of inner peace and resilience. This is vital in a time when external events can lead to despair and disillusionment.
- Practice Mindfulness: Regularly engage in practices that ground you—meditation, journaling, or simply taking a moment to breathe deeply. These practices will help you maintain clarity amid chaos.
Engage Wisely with the World
Finally, as you navigate this tumultuous landscape, remember that your engagement with the world should be purposeful and discerning.
- Choose Your Sources: Be selective about the information you consume. Seek out reputable sources and question narratives that seem designed to provoke outrage or fear. Your discernment is a powerful tool against the tide of misinformation.
By adhering to the Stoic principle of the dichotomy of control, you empower yourself to act wisely and meaningfully in a world that often feels overwhelming. Embrace your agency and navigate the chaos with a steadfast heart.
Article Rewritten Through Stoic Lens
The Stoic Response to Turmoil: A Lesson in Control
Awareness of External Events
In the early hours of Sunday, a shooting occurred at the White House correspondents’ dinner—a reminder that violence can intrude upon even the most esteemed gatherings. As we learn of such events, we must remember: we cannot control the actions of others, but we can control our reactions.
Opportunity for Discipline: Reflect on your emotional response. Are you swept away by fear or anger? Instead, cultivate a tranquil mind, recognizing that external chaos does not dictate your internal peace.
The Nature of Skepticism
Following the incident, social media erupted with conspiracy theories. Many claimed the attack was staged, an attempt to distract from pressing issues. Herein lies a critical lesson: we cannot control the narratives others create, but we can choose how we engage with them.
Opportunity for Judgment: Practice discernment. Instead of hastily accepting or rejecting claims, pause and evaluate the evidence. Seek truth through reasoned thought rather than emotional reaction.
The Weight of Distrust
The pervasive distrust in government narratives highlights a deeper issue: we cannot control the past actions of leaders, but we can control our understanding of their implications. History is replete with deception, and it is wise to approach current events with a critical eye.
Opportunity for Right Action: Engage in civic duties with integrity. Whether through informed voting or community involvement, take action that aligns with your values, rather than succumbing to disillusionment.
Normalization of Violence
The normalization of violence is alarming. Mass shootings and political violence have become so frequent that they often elicit little more than a fleeting response. Here, we find a dual lesson: we cannot control the frequency of violence, but we can control our capacity for empathy and outrage.
Opportunity for Compassion: Allow yourself to feel the weight of these tragedies. Channel that feeling into constructive action—support victims, advocate for change, and foster dialogue around peace.
The Cycle of Outrage and Numbness
As we navigate this landscape, we may find ourselves oscillating between outrage and numbness. This cycle is a reflection of our inability to control external chaos. Yet, we can control how we process these emotions.
Opportunity for Reflection: When faced with despair, turn inward. Meditate on what you can learn from each event. Use these moments to strengthen your resolve and commitment to virtue.
The Path Forward
In these turbulent times, it is essential to remember the Stoic principle: focus on what is within your control. The actions of others, the narratives spun by media, and the tragedies that unfold are beyond our grasp. However, our responses, judgments, and actions remain firmly within our domain.
Final Opportunity for Growth: Embrace each challenge as a chance to practice Stoic virtues. Cultivate resilience, wisdom, and compassion. In doing so, you not only navigate the storm but emerge stronger, a beacon of clarity in a world of confusion.
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In the early hours of Sunday, I awoke to check the time on my phone and learned that there had been a shooting – apparently, an assassination attempt – at this year’s White House correspondents’ dinner, an event held annually to honor the journalists who cover presidential politics. I stayed awake just long enough to read that the attack had been thwarted and that no one had been killed, and then I went back to sleep. By morning, my social media accounts and email inbox was filled with entries that began with some version of the phrase, “I’m not a conspiracy theorist but … ” Even as they distanced themselves from crackpot takes on current history, some Americans were suggesting that the assault had been orchestrated to distract us from the war in Iran, the struggling economy, the Epstein files. Several news sites reported that the word “staged” had appeared in more than 300,000 posts on Twitter/X. This new attack, people were claiming, was no more credible than the 2024 shooting from which Donald Trump emerged with a wounded – and almost miraculously undamaged – ear. And, many across the nation wondered, didn’t it seemed suspicious that the president seemed so unruffled by this new eruption of violence that he pivoted almost immediately to explaining why this event demonstrated the urgent need for the ultra-high-security White House ballroom that he has been so passionately planning to construct? Within a few hours, we learned that the shooter had been caught and identified as a 31-year-old Californian with an engineering degree who had allegedly sent his family members a “manifesto” expressing his anger at the president and the members of his administration. But his capture did little to neutralize the fears that, it seems to me, the story has inspired. The first and most obvious of these concerns is that many Americans, including myself, have grown so accustomed to being deceived that we no longer know precisely whom we can trust and what we can believe. As a consequence, we’ve become inclined to doubt everything the government tells us. Again and again, our political leaders and cultural figures have been caught in lies ranging from the trivial to the catastrophic, exposed for misrepresenting the truth in ways intended to conceal previous misrepresentations. Most of us know that we are not hearing the full story about the war in Iran and that the true villains in the Epstein scandal have remained unindicted. We’ve watched present and former cabinet members – Pam Bondi, Kristi Noem, Robert F Kennedy Jr and others – refusing to answer direct questions during congressional hearings, inquiries that would have led to the exposure of a wide range of purposely orchestrated and deeply disturbing cover-ups and distortions. We’ve seen high-ranking officials deny behaviors that we can plainly observe on our phones. Given the near-daily barrage of falsehoods to which we have been exposed, surely the average American can be forgiven for harboring some healthy skepticism about what transpired at the White House correspondents’ dinner – and why precisely it occurred. What’s equally disturbing is how this latest incident illustrates the horrifying degree to which violence in general and political violence in particular have been normalized. Massacres and school shootings rarely make the headlines unless the body count is exceptionally high. On this most recent occasion, some commentators appeared less concerned by the danger that had been posed to the president than by the question of why he had been invited to address a gathering of journalists, quite a few of whom he had personally insulted or worked diligently to silence. I was a senior in high school when JFK was assassinated, a senior in college when Robert F Kennedy and Martin Luther King were killed, and I remember how shocking and profoundly traumatic these events were, for the entire nation. I can recall exactly where I was – waiting to meet an out-of-town-friend in a hotel lobby – on 30 March 1981 when John Hinckley Jr attempted to kill Ronald Reagan, ironically outside the same hotel, the Washington Hilton, where this year’s White House correspondents’ dinner was held. My friend and I went to the hotel bar to watch the unfolding events on TV, and though Reagan was by no means our favorite president, we were deeply shaken and on the edge of tears. Things are very different now, when one murder follows another so rapidly that we hardly have time to mourn one victim when another is tragically lost. The killings have occurred across the entire political spectrum. Charlie Kirk was murdered in cold blood in September 2025. Having done nothing wrong, Renee Good and Alex Pretti were shot to death by ICE agents just four months later. And we will never learn the names of the thousands and thousands of men, women and children who, in a relatively brief time, have been killed in Gaza, in Lebanon, in Iran. As a nation, as a culture, we have become so overwhelmed by the sheer number and the rapid succession of brutal and unnecessary deaths that we simply can’t process the horror and the grief. We have no idea whom we can believe and what we should sensibly doubt. Inevitably, periods of outrage will alternate with times of exhaustion and numbness; bursts of clarity will be interrupted by moments of confusion and bewilderment. It’s no longer possible but probable that people who pride themselves on retaining some vestiges of conscience, people who are still capable of being shocked, will now find themselves awakening to the latest report of some fresh calamity, some new disaster, and will be able – as I was on Sunday morning – to fall right back asleep. Francine Prose is a former president of PEN American Center and a member of the American Academy of Arts and Letters and the American Academy of Arts and Sciences