May 23, 2026
Stephen Miller delivers for Trump: 145,000 US kids separated from their parents
In a recent report by the Brookings Institution, it was revealed that over 145,000 U.S. citizen children have been affected by the detention of at least one parent since the start of Donald Trump's second administration, largely due to policies influenced by Stephen Miller. The report highlights a significant increase in the separation of families, with more than 22,000 children experiencing the detention of both parents, and many of these children are under six years old. The author concludes that the current administration's approach to family separation is not only more aggressive than previous administrations but also lacks a systematic method for protecting the affected children, leading to potential long-term trauma. Overall, the report paints a grim picture of the ongoing impact of these immigration policies on vulnerable families.

Stoic Response
Stoic Field Manual Entry: Responding to Injustice
Situation Overview
Recent reports indicate that over 145,000 U.S. citizen children have been affected by parental detention policies, leading to significant family separations and potential long-term trauma. This situation is exacerbated by aggressive immigration policies, particularly under the influence of Stephen Miller and Donald Trump.
What Is Within Our Power
- Our Reactions: We can control our emotional responses to these injustices. While we cannot change the actions of those in power, we can choose how we perceive and react to them.
- Our Actions: We can engage in advocacy, support affected families, and raise awareness about the impact of these policies.
- Our Values: We can uphold principles of compassion and justice in our own lives, fostering a community that values human dignity.
What Is Opinion
- Public Perception: Opinions about the effectiveness of current immigration policies vary widely. Some view them as necessary for national security, while others see them as inhumane.
- Character Judgments: Opinions on figures like Stephen Miller and Donald Trump are often polarized, reflecting broader societal divides rather than objective truths.
- Media Narratives: The framing of reports and articles can shape our understanding and opinions about the situation, but we must remain critical of these narratives.
What Action Virtue Demands
- Advocacy for Change: Virtue calls for us to advocate for humane immigration policies and to support organizations that assist affected families.
- Empathy and Support: We should extend our compassion to those suffering from these policies, recognizing their humanity and the trauma they endure.
- Personal Reflection: We must reflect on our own values and actions, ensuring they align with principles of justice and compassion, and challenge ourselves to act accordingly.
Conclusion
In the face of injustice, the Stoic approach emphasizes the importance of focusing on what we can control—our responses and actions—while recognizing the limitations of our influence over external events. Let us strive to embody virtue in our actions, advocating for those who cannot advocate for themselves, and nurturing a society that prioritizes the well-being of all its members.
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Journal of Marcus Aurelius: Reflections on Recent Events
Acceptance of Nature's Order
In contemplating the report from the Brookings Institution regarding the plight of children affected by parental detention, I am reminded of the nature of existence itself. The world unfolds according to its own design, and while we may not control the actions of others, we can control our responses. The separation of families, a phenomenon not new to humanity, serves as a reminder of the impermanence of our circumstances and the inevitability of suffering in life.
The Nature of Virtue
It is easy to fall into despair when faced with the suffering of innocent children—over 145,000, as reported. Yet, within this turmoil lies an opportunity for virtue. We are called to respond with compassion and to advocate for those who cannot advocate for themselves. In the face of cruelty, let us cultivate kindness; in the presence of injustice, let us embody fairness.
The Role of Leadership
The actions of those in power, such as Stephen Miller and Donald Trump, reflect a profound misunderstanding of the responsibilities that accompany leadership. To wield power without regard for the well-being of the vulnerable is to stray from the path of virtue. As leaders, we must remember that our decisions echo through the lives of others, particularly the innocent. The increase in family separations, though a continuation of past policies, reveals a troubling shift towards a more callous approach.
The Illusion of Control
Miller’s assertion of a "very secure, intact ego" serves as a reminder of the delusions that often accompany power. True strength lies not in the ability to impose one’s will upon others, but in the capacity to empathize and to act with integrity. We must recognize that the pursuit of self-interest at the expense of others ultimately leads to a fractured society.
The Call to Action
As I reflect on the reports of trauma experienced by these children—many under the age of six—I am compelled to consider what actions I can take to alleviate their suffering. While the state may lack a systematic approach to protect these children, we as individuals can strive to create a community that values compassion over indifference. Let us be the guardians of those who are unable to protect themselves.
The Importance of Awareness
In a world where the suffering of others can easily be ignored, it is our duty to remain vigilant and aware. The statistics may seem overwhelming, yet each number represents a life, a story, a potential unfulfilled. Let us not become desensitized to the plight of others, but rather let our hearts be moved to act.
Conclusion: Embracing Our Shared Humanity
In closing, I am reminded that we are all interconnected. The suffering of one is the suffering of all. As we navigate the complexities of our time, let us strive to embody the principles of justice, compassion, and humility. In doing so, we honor our shared humanity and contribute to a more virtuous society.
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Stephen Miller, Donald Trump’s immigration czar and the architect of some of the government’s cruelest policies, doesn’t care what you think about him. He doesn’t care if you call him “Pee-wee German” or “Weird Stephen” or “Voldemort”, or any of the other nicknames he has inspired; his self-esteem is excellent. “I have a very, very secure, intact ego,” Miller told Fox News’s Jesse Watters this week after being asked how he felt about his wife, Katie Miller, potentially landing a big distribution deal with Paramount for her terrible Maga podcast. “I’ve never had a larger fan following,” Miller continued. “[A]ny man who works for President Trump is a man that is very, very strong and self-assured in his role.” Well, yes, I suppose you’ve got to be a very, very strong man to separate babies from their parents – which is what Miller will forever be famous for. Back in Trump 1.0, Miller played a key role in implementing a “zero tolerance” border policy that systematically removed more than 5,000 immigrant children, some just a few months old, from their parents at the US-Mexico border. A Human Rights Watch report released in December 2024 found that as many as 1,360 children had never been reunited with their parents. Swayed by all the outrage, Trump eventually signed an executive order ending the family separation policy in 2018. But the practice continues, albeit in a different form. A report released on Monday from the Brookings Institution estimates that more than 145,000 US citizen children have had at least one parent detained since the start of Trump’s second administration, amid a mass deportation campaign heavily influenced by Miller. To be clear: there are no official figures about how many children have been affected by Trump’s mass deportations. But Brookings, which is a highly reputable nonpartisan thinktank, conducted a statistical analysis that looked at the demographic characteristics of the roughly 60,000 people currently in detention, and the 400,000 people who have been put into Ice detention from an interior arrest since the start of Trump’s second term. The report estimates that out of the more than 145,000 children believed to be affected, more than 22,000 experienced the detention of all their co-resident parents. More than 53,000 citizen children with a detained parent were estimated to be under the age of six. Trump is not the first president to detain or deport the parents of US citizen minors. However, he’s doing it at a much faster rate, and in a much crueler way, than his predecessor. A data analysis by ProPublica published in March found “ICE arrests of parents doubled in the first seven months of Trump’s second term compared with the Biden administration”. It also found mothers were being more aggressively targeted: “Trump is deporting about four times as many moms of US citizen children per day as Biden did.” A Guardian investigation from May uncovered similar statistics. Another change from Biden administration norms are the guidelines on how immigration officers should exercise their discretion when it comes to families. “A document once known as the Parental Interests Directive has been given a new name under Trump – the Detained Parents Directive,” writes ProPublica. “And its preamble, which once instructed agents to handle immigrant parents in a way that was ‘humane,’ has been stripped of the word.” Again: Trump is not the first president to separate US citizen children from their immigrant parents. But no other administration has been so callous about the welfare of the children affected. “The bottom line is that there is no systematic approach to protecting the children of those detained by ICE,” the Brookings report states. There is “no government entity … responsible for their wellbeing”. There also isn’t adequate record-keeping, meaning we have little idea what is happening to all these children. What we do know, of course, is that many of these children are going to be immensely traumatized. Kelly Kribs, an attorney at the Young Center, told the Guardian in May that the separation crisis unfolding now is even more insidious than the family separation policy from Trump 1.0. “It’s leading to all the same forms of trauma that we saw unfold back in 2018,” said Kribs. “But the speed and the scale of the separations now is at a level we’ve never seen before.” One suspects that the Millers, who have three kids of their own, are not particularly perturbed by these 145,000 traumatized children. 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