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May 30, 2026

Can Trump win back young men with a UFC fight on his lawn? | Arwa Mahdawi

In her article, Arwa Mahdawi discusses Donald Trump's declining support among young men, a demographic crucial to his previous electoral success. She highlights the irony of Trump planning a UFC event on the White House lawn in an attempt to reconnect with this audience, despite their growing disillusionment due to issues like the costly war with Iran. Mahdawi concludes that simply hosting an extravagant spectacle won't be enough to win back young men; instead, meaningful engagement and addressing their economic concerns are essential. She warns that Democrats may misinterpret this shift, potentially leaning into problematic narratives rather than fostering genuine understanding.

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Understanding the Chief Tension

In Arwa Mahdawi's article, the central tension revolves around Donald Trump's declining support among young men, a demographic crucial to his electoral success. Mahdawi notes that "66% of young men disapproved of Trump’s performance in office," highlighting a significant disconnect between Trump's actions and the needs of this demographic. The article underscores that mere spectacles, like hosting a UFC event, will not suffice to regain their support. Instead, genuine engagement and addressing economic concerns are paramount.

Acknowledge What You Can Control

As you reflect on this situation, recognize the Stoic principle of the dichotomy of control. Understand that you cannot control the actions of politicians or the sentiments of the masses. What you can control is your response to these events. Focus on your thoughts and actions rather than external circumstances.

Engage with Purpose

In line with the Stoic philosophy, act with intention. Instead of merely reacting to the political landscape, engage meaningfully with those around you. Foster discussions that prioritize understanding and empathy, especially with those who feel disillusioned. Seek to comprehend their concerns rather than dismiss them. This will not only enrich your perspective but also contribute to a more thoughtful discourse.

Cultivate Resilience

As you navigate the complexities of political discourse, cultivate resilience. Understand that dissatisfaction with leadership is a common human experience. Rather than allowing frustration to cloud your judgment, use it as motivation to advocate for change. Remember that true progress often comes from the grassroots level, where individuals can effect real transformation.

Lead by Example

Finally, embody the Stoic ideal of virtue. Strive to be a beacon of rationality and integrity in discussions about leadership and societal issues. By modeling thoughtful engagement and addressing the underlying concerns of your community, you can inspire others to do the same. As Mahdawi suggests, it's not enough to merely entertain; true leadership requires addressing the fundamental needs of the populace.

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The Path of the Stoic: Lessons from the Current Discourse

Understanding Control: The Dichotomy at Play

In our examination of external events, we must first discern what lies within our control and what does not. The political landscape, much like the tumultuous sea, often presents waves of discontent that we cannot calm. Yet, we can choose our response to these waves.

Discipline in the Face of Disillusionment

Consider the case of Donald Trump and his declining support among young men. This demographic, once a pillar of his electoral success, now expresses dissatisfaction. The external event—the shifting opinions of voters—reminds us that we cannot control the sentiments of others. However, we can cultivate our own discipline in judgment.

When faced with such discontent, ask yourself: What is within my power? The answer lies in our ability to engage meaningfully with those around us, to listen and to understand their concerns, rather than merely seeking applause through grand gestures.

Judgment Amidst Extravagance

As we observe the administration's decision to invest in opulent displays, such as gilded horse statues, we must reflect on the nature of judgment. Is it wise to prioritize aesthetic over substance? This is a moment to practice discernment.

While the world clamors for spectacle, we must remember that true leadership lies in addressing the underlying issues—economic hardship, rising costs, and the human experience. We cannot control the actions of our leaders, but we can choose to respond with clarity and purpose.

Right Action in a Sea of Noise

The upcoming UFC event at the White House serves as a stark reminder of the allure of distraction. Yet, we must ask ourselves: Is this the right action? The Stoic teaches us to seek virtue over popularity.

Engagement with the youth requires more than mere entertainment; it demands a commitment to addressing their grievances. This is an opportunity to practice right action—advocating for meaningful dialogue rather than superficial solutions.

The Perils of Misinterpretation

As we observe the reactions of political parties to the shifting tides of public opinion, we must remain vigilant. The temptation to misinterpret these changes can lead to misguided strategies.

Democrats, in their eagerness to reclaim support, may lean into narratives that do not serve the greater good. Here, we are reminded to reflect on our motivations and to strive for understanding rather than division. What can we learn from those who feel unheard? This is where our focus should lie.

Empathy Over Anger

In the face of rising tensions and discontent, we must cultivate empathy. The notion that young men are gravitating towards harmful ideologies is a call to action, not despair.

Instead of succumbing to anger or blame, let us extend our understanding. How can we engage in a way that fosters healthy masculinity? This is an opportunity to practice compassion and to guide others towards a more virtuous path.

Conclusion: The Stoic Way Forward

In navigating the complexities of our world, let us remember the Stoic principles of control, judgment, and right action. The external events may be beyond our grasp, but our responses are wholly within our power.

As we observe the unfolding drama of politics and public opinion, let us strive to embody the virtues of understanding and empathy. In doing so, we not only cultivate our own character but also contribute to a more harmonious society.

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Donald Trump has been facing a lot of allegations that he’s snoozing on the job. But we should give the poor man a break: he must be exhausted by his unceasing efforts to make life better for us all. At this very moment, for example, The Trump administration is spending $5m to cover four bronze horses near the Lincoln Memorial in thick gold leaf. No longer will passersby be subjected to subpar equine aesthetics. Finally, the American people will have the glimmering horse statues they deserve. Meanwhile, the US has been fighting a war with Iran that, by one expert’s estimate, is costing $2bn dollars a day and will probably end up with a price tag of at least a trillion dollars. This may seem like a colossal waste of money to some, but real patriots understand that this is simply the cost of making America great again. Alas, President Trump isn’t getting the appreciation he deserves. Instead of looking at the bigger picture (eg the strategic importance of enriching billionaires) people keep asking stupid questions like: “Why can’t I afford my groceries?” and “Why did my electric bill just double?” Trump has been sinking in the polls for a while now, recently hitting record new lows. Affordability is a key driver of negative sentiment, with a majority of Americans saying that the Iran war has made life a lot more expensive for them. Image-obsessed Trump can’t be thrilled by his plummeting poll numbers. But what should really frighten him is this: he’s hemorrhaging support from young men, a demographic that helped him win his second term. Back in February the centrist thinktank Third Way released a poll which found 66% of young men disapproved of Trump’s performance in office. Meanwhile influential podcast bros like Joe Rogan and Theo Von, who played a key part in getting Trump elected, have publicly soured on the president. In April, Von called Trump’s attacks on Iran “diabolical”, asking: “What regular person is this helping? ... I don’t understand.” Rogan has also criticized Trump’s handling of the Iran war, noting that one reason so many people voted for Trump was because he promised “no more wars”. Trump’s decreasing support from young men, and increased criticism from manosphere-adjacent podcasters, isn’t new. However, it’s getting more scrutiny as preparations ramp up for the 14 June Ultimate Fighting Championship (UFC) match on the White House lawn. The UFC’s core demographic is young men and UFC events played an important role in Trump’s campaign strategy. During a CNN discussion about the event on Thursday, the host, Kate Bolduan, was so shocked by Trump’s approval rating drop among men under 30 that she initially thought a graph shown by data expert Harry Enten must be incorrect. “No, that is not a typo,” Enten said. “That is a fifty-six point move against the president of the United States among young men who helped put him over the top in the election. And now he is very much struggling with them. Maybe that’s part of the reason why he wants to put on an event like this, to try and connect with some of them.” I mean, yes, that’s obviously part of the reason why this ridiculous event is going ahead. But Trump is going to have to do a lot better than a cage fight to win back disillusioned young men. Even Rogan, who has been a UFC commentator for decades and who is expected to be at the event, has his reservations about the fight. During a March podcast he said he was excited but it was “weird to have a fight at the White House in the middle of a fucking war.” He added: “I would hope the war will be sorted out by June, but quite honestly, I’m not confident that’s going to be the case.” Even if the war is miraculously sorted out by June, it’s already done a hell of a lot of damage to the global economy and US consumers. And we are likely to see even higher food prices because of a completely unnecessary war. You can’t just appease the people with circuses; you’ve also got to give them affordable bread. All this said, I wouldn’t take much satisfaction from the dissatisfaction in Trump amongst young men. I have a horrible feeling that the Democrats, who put together a $20m plan last year to build a “liberal Joe Rogan”, have learned all the wrong lessons from young men’s lurch to the right. Gavin Newsom, for example, widely considered a top contender for the 2028 Democratic nomination, has been aggressively leaning into bro culture. He has even adopted manosphere language; in July, he called Stephen Miller a “fascist cuck”. Should Democrats empathize with economically anxious young men? Of course. But they should not coddle angry men who have decided that women are to blame for all their problems. An extraordinary number of people appear to think otherwise. Richard Reeves, the president of the American Institute for Boys and Men, a left-leaning research institute, recently told the New York Times that he was exasperated by the seemingly ubiquitous opinion that young men are now all right-wing “Andrew Tate-style misogynists”. “Maybe,” Reeves said, “they’re actually really swingy and up for grabs.” Please, can we shout that from the rooftops. Winning young men does not have to mean shifting to the right and calling people cucks on the internet. 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Arwa Mahdawi is a Guardian columnist