August 28, 2026
Trump’s midterm campaign theme is unrequited love | Sidney Blumenthal
In a striking analysis, Sidney Blumenthal explores Donald Trump's midterm campaign theme, which he describes as an expression of "unrequited love" for himself. Trump’s fixation on loyalty and devotion from his supporters reveals a deeper existential crisis within the Republican Party, as he demands absolute submission while grappling with declining popularity. Blumenthal argues that Trump’s approach is less about policy and more about reinforcing his cult of personality, with his campaign becoming a desperate plea for affection amid growing discontent. As the midterms approach, the implications of this theme could profoundly impact both Trump and the Republican candidates aligned with him.

Stoic Response
Address to My Students in the Stoa
Greetings, seekers of wisdom. Today, let us reflect on the nature of desire and the judgments we make about ourselves and others, particularly in the context of the tumultuous political landscape we observe.
The Headline Issue: Unrequited Love in Leadership
As we examine the situation surrounding figures such as Donald Trump, we see a profound expression of unrequited love—a longing for validation that transcends rationality. This fixation reveals a deeper existential crisis, not only within the individual but also within the collective.
Challenge Unhealthy Judgments
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Recognize the Nature of Desire:
- Understand that desire can lead us astray.
- Question the motives behind your desires: Are they rooted in virtue or in vanity?
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Assess Impulses:
- Observe your impulses toward approval and loyalty. Are they driven by reason or by fear?
- Consider the consequences of acting on these impulses. Will they lead to harmony or discord?
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Examine Assent:
- Before you assent to judgments about others, reflect on their validity.
- Ask yourself: Is my judgment based on truth or mere appearance?
Anchor Your Advice in Discipline
To cultivate a wise and disciplined mind amidst the chaos, heed these imperatives:
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Practice Detachment:
- Seek not the approval of others, but the approval of your own reason.
- Recognize that true fulfillment comes from within, not from external validation.
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Cultivate Inner Strength:
- Build resilience against the storms of public opinion and fleeting loyalties.
- Focus on your own character and the virtues you wish to embody.
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Embrace Rationality:
- Engage in critical thinking; do not accept claims without scrutiny.
- Let your judgments be informed by wisdom rather than emotion.
Conclusion: The Path Forward
As you navigate the complexities of desire and judgment, remember that the path to wisdom lies in discipline. By mastering your desires, impulses, and judgments, you will find peace and clarity in a world rife with uncertainty.
Let us strive together to cultivate a life of virtue, free from the chains of unrequited love and unhealthy attachments. Seek not the fleeting affections of the crowd, but the enduring wisdom of the self.
In this pursuit, may you find strength and serenity.
Article Rewritten Through Stoic Lens
The Stoic Lessons from the Unrequited Love of Politics
Understanding Control: The Dichotomy of Power
In observing the political landscape, we must recognize the distinction between what lies within our control and what does not. Donald Trump’s campaign theme, rooted in his self-obsession, serves as a poignant reminder of this principle. While he seeks loyalty and devotion from his supporters, we must ask ourselves: can we control the affections of others? No. What we can control is our judgment and response to such external demands.
Self-Reflection: The Mirror of Ego
Trump’s fixation on himself, akin to a man gazing into a mirror, reveals a deeper existential crisis. This is an opportunity for us to practice self-reflection. Instead of seeking validation from others, we should cultivate inner strength and self-acceptance. True discipline lies in understanding that our worth is not determined by external applause but by our own virtuous actions.
Judgment in Loyalty: The Nature of Affection
As Trump demands absolute loyalty, we must discern the nature of our own commitments. Are we drawn to those who seek our submission, or do we align ourselves with principles that foster mutual respect? This is a chance to exercise our judgment. We must choose wisely where to direct our loyalty, ensuring it is rooted in virtue rather than fear or manipulation.
The Illusion of Control: Fear as a Substitute for Love
Trump’s approach, equating fear with love, illustrates a misguided understanding of relationships. Here lies a teaching moment: we must not confuse coercion with genuine affection. Instead, let us strive to foster connections built on trust and sincerity. Recognizing this distinction empowers us to act rightly, choosing compassion over fear.
The Consequences of Impulsivity: A Lesson in Restraint
As Trump faces declining popularity, his impulsive responses only exacerbate his situation. This serves as a reminder of the Stoic principle of restraint. We must learn to pause, reflect, and consider the long-term consequences of our actions. In moments of crisis, it is our disciplined response that defines us, not the chaos of the external world.
The Role of Community: Embracing Collective Wisdom
Trump’s reliance on a cult of personality highlights the importance of community. However, true community thrives on shared values rather than blind allegiance. We should seek to cultivate relationships that encourage growth and wisdom. This is an opportunity to practice discernment in our associations, aligning with those who uplift and challenge us.
The Nature of Leadership: A Call for Integrity
In observing Trump’s leadership style, we must reflect on the qualities we value in our own leaders. True leadership is not about subservience but about guiding others with integrity and virtue. Let this be a moment to examine our own actions and the leaders we support, ensuring they embody the principles we hold dear.
The Power of Perception: Shaping Our Reality
Trump’s insistence that the midterm elections revolve around him illustrates the power of perception. We must recognize that while we cannot control how others perceive us, we can control our own perspective. By focusing on our values and actions, we can shape a reality that aligns with our Stoic principles, regardless of external chaos.
Final Reflections: The Stoic Path Forward
As we navigate the complexities of political dynamics, let us embrace the Stoic teachings that guide us. In every external event, we find an opportunity to practice discipline, refine our judgment, and act rightly. The true measure of our character lies not in the whims of others but in our steadfast commitment to virtue. Let us remain resolute in our pursuit of wisdom, regardless of the tumultuous world around us.
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Donald Trump has framed his theme for the midterm elections. It has come to him as naturally and inevitably as staring into the mirror, beyond any logic or argument, his definitive answer to no specific issue, providing no understanding of any particular problem, but transcending all of them. His political theme is more primal than programmatic, more instinctive than analytical, a heartfelt expression to protect his greatest romantic attachment, his obsessive fixation, his idealized object: himself. Trump’s campaign theme is unrequited love. Unlike the pollsters, media consultants and pundits, he alone has grasped the magnitude and the source of the existential crisis threatening his politics. He has identified the problem for the Republicans as the faltering measure of complete devotion to him. His demand has nothing to do with mutual affection. It is a ploy to reassert his slipping control, a manipulative test to prove loyalty to him, or else. There can be no absolute rule without an absolute ruler; no absolute ruler without absolute submission; no absolute submission without the expression of absolute love. His sadness at its fading gives way to anger, paranoia and greater acts of retribution. He equates the fear he instills as a form of love. Trump accepts subservience, from whatever motive, as affection or its closest equivalent. He cares nothing about sincerity, so it’s all in the show. The less love displayed, the more fear required. Yet there is no rebound, but only deeper rejection. Trump is heading toward the floor for presidential unpopularity – Nixon during Watergate on the eve of his resignation, Truman late in his second term at the depth of the Korean war, and George W Bush at the 2008 financial crash. But Trump’s breakdown differs uniquely from theirs. His decline has come earlier in his term, been more sustained, and his disintegration has not stabilized but is accelerating. He is being crushed by the accumulation of catastrophic events of his own making to which his impulsive response is to double down in each and every area. Stalemated in his reckless Iran war, he has now launched a heedless trade war against Canada that will devastate Republican candidates in the northern tier of states. His latest vanity project is gestural retribution to rename Lake Ontario as “Lake America”, a watery ballroom. Admission of error for Trump would be the denial of self-love. Trump began his campaign on his unrequited love theme on 16 August during a Fox News interview in which he discussed his press secretary, Karoline Leavitt, leaving her job after just having a baby. He had held her up as meeting his highest criterion in remarks last December: “Isn’t she great? Is Karoline great? … She gets up there with that beautiful face and those lips that don’t stop, ba ba ba like a little machine gun.” Now, he tried to make a joke of her departure that expressed resentment at abandonment. “In fact, she likes her children more than she likes Trump. I’m very concerned about that,” he said. Then he repeated his unfunny “joke” at a campaign rally in South Carolina on 21 August: “I just learned she loves the baby more than she loves Donald Trump, and I’m very angry …” Trump’s lame attempt at humor was a rare instance of his truth-telling and self-revelation, a contemporary illustration of Freud’s Jokes and Their Relation to the Unconscious. Trump was in South Carolina to campaign for his chosen candidate in the Republican primary, Darline Graham, who he had insisted be appointed to the Senate seat of her brother Lindsey Graham after he died on 11 July. Darline Graham confessed to cluelessness when asked in a debate about her position on Taiwan. “National security is not my thing,” she answered. “I’m not … that informed on national security.” But she was fully informed on the necessity of obedience to Trump. “You saved our country, and I want to thank you for that,” she said at the rally. Trump praised his worshipper: “She’s got a good gene pool.” She was born to love him. She stood in stark contrast to the immigrants he had described as “poisoning the blood of our country”. Then Trump called on the crowd to embrace his new theme. “So what I really want you to do is pretend, please, that I’m on the ballot … So just say that I’m on the ballot one more time. You got to say it.” He wishes every candidate to sound like Darline Graham in proclaiming him the national savior. He insists he is beloved, and if those who revere him turn out the Republicans must win. In fact, though he is not on the ballot in the midterm elections, Trump is the central issue. Voters do not have to “pretend, please”. Trump intuitively comprehends that the midterm elections are about him in a way that makes this midterm unlike any other. In the marrow of his bones, he senses it is a crisis of his cult of personality. Trump’s Maga was never a new party structure, but constructed on his wreckage of the old Republican party. In its place, every particle of the replacement is connected to the leader to advance his supremacy and self-enrichment. Everything flows upward, all heads tilted, all knees bent. Maga has always been Maga Inc of, by and for one man. The movement is the man. When charisma fails, the movement implodes. If the leader is not worshipped, his uber-principle – the leader principle – collapses: no fuhrerprinzip, no Führer. Trump’s plea for their unconditional love – “pretend, please” – defies gravity. He is running against Isaac Newton, and Newton always prevails. Intensity is gauged by “strongly approve” and “strongly disapprove” poll numbers. More than the general statistics of approval or disapproval, these provide insight into the motivation of voters that determine the contour of elections. Trump now stands at 13% “strongly approve” in the most recent Reuters-Ipsos Poll. His “strongly disapprove” rating is at 49%. His total approval is at 33%, while disapproval is at 65%. Those in the “somewhat approve” category include low propensity soft voters especially inclined to skip midterm elections. And this poll was taken before his declaration of trade war against Canada. All along, the Republicans have been Trump’s indispensable accomplices. Even if they were disposed to object, they could do nothing to draw him back from his “pretend, please” campaign. His anxiety to rescue his invincible image from the reality he’s created makes him more inescapable than ever. Any effort to restrict him will provoke his rage. He will not diminish himself for the sake of the party or even his own future. He plans to spend millions from his Maga Inc political action committee to tell the voters that they have never had it so good – “the greatest economy we’ve ever had, by far”, he says. He has mocked the suggestion that “affordability” might be a problem for many – it’s “a word they”, the media, “devised”, he has said. Trump intends to stage a mini convention in Dallas on 9 September, featuring Donald Trump to “celebrate … our achievements”. Republicans are locked almost uniformly into blind support, with the Maine senator Susan Collins venturing hollow criticism of the Canadian tariffs that makes her seem powerless and infuriates the remaining Maga base. Just as Trump has trapped himself, he has trapped the Republicans. The expenditure of tens of millions to depict his dire consequences as paradise on earth will have the unintended effect of supercharging the already motivated “strongly disapprove” voters and disillusion those who cannot help but be aware of the actual conditions of their own lives. The sudden surfacing of Natalie Harp as a meme at this particular moment propitiously coincides with the wobbling of Trump’s cult. The 35-year-old is his model of the perfect staffer, perfect companion and perfect American citizen. If unrequited love is the problem, she is the solution. In Trump’s hierarchy of need, his pyramid of status, love and self-actualization, she is at the apex. Harp is his “binky”, as Maggie Haberman of the New York Times has called her, his comfort blanket, his plush bunny rabbit. The “human printer” who trails after him, pressing the button to churn out an endless stream of adulatory articles, conspiracy theories and “alternative facts”, has become an extension of his nervous system. The former anchor at the fringe far-right One America News Network serves as Trump’s personal anchor. Harp broadcasts around the clock to an audience of one. She is the connector to the neurons of the far right, serving as a conduit to dodgy characters such as Laura Loomer with her lists of national security officials who were supposedly disloyal. Harp is Trump’s neurotransmitter who distributes a steady supply of dopamine and delusion. Harp’s self-abasing devotion to Trump, expressed in her letters to him, serves as a kind of inadvertent political manifesto for the cult, a template for followers. Harp tellingly muddles a line from Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice – Mr Bennet blessing his strong-willed daughter Elizabeth in her engagement to Darcy – to demean herself and offer subservience to Trump: “To modify a classic, ‘I could not have parted with you, to anyone less worthy’ – And, I will add, it is I who is unworthy.” In another letter, after self-disparaging apologies, Harp writes: “You are all that matters to me. I don’t want to ever let you down. Thank you for being my Guardian and Protector in this Life … With all my Heart.” As public opinion curdles on Trump, no longer able to “pretend, please”, Harp has not come to the wisdom of Conway Twitty in his 1959 rockabilly hit: My only prayer will be Someday you’ll care for me But it’s only make believe Sidney Blumenthal, former senior adviser to President Bill Clinton and Hillary Clinton, has published three books of a projected five-volume political life of Abraham Lincoln: A Self-Made Man, Wrestling With His Angel and All the Powers of Earth. He is a Guardian US columnist and co-host of the Court of History podcast